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		<title>I heart Golf!</title>
		<link>http://blog.melissahie.com/2009/08/01/i-heart-golf/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 17:19:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Icha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Despite golf being a huge part of my family's life, I was the only one who remained unphased and uninterested... that is, until Indonesia President Invitational 2009 happened.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So as I said on <a href="http://blog.melissahie.com/2009/07/25/quick-update/">my previous entry</a>, i&#8217;ve been busy living on the golf course for pretty much all of last week. despite golf being a huge part of my family&#8217;s life, I was the only one who remained unphased and uninterested&#8230; that is, until Indonesia President Invitational 2009 happened.</p>
<p>working this event has forced me to read up on Asian Tour&#8217;s leading golfers (like when I need to write short articles for the website, or when I need to caption pictures), and doing so has made me realize just how great of athletes they really are!</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1485" title="Noh Seung-Yul" src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/nohseungyul.jpg" alt="Noh Seung-Yul" width="375" height="500" /></p>
<p>This is me and my sister with Noh Seung Yul. I realize I look pretty horrible in this picture&#8230; but no matter, because this kid is one of the most talented golfers in Asian Tour and he <em>just</em> barely turned 18. He became a pro golfer last year and immediately made his name by winning a tournament and getting his name in the 10th place of the money list by the end of the year. who at 17 makes $300,000? this kid does. and that&#8217;s just from tournament wins&#8230;</p>
<p><span id="more-1483"></span><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1486" title="Bryan Saltus" src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/saltus.jpg" alt="Bryan Saltus" width="500" height="375" /></p>
<p>This one is Bryan Saltus. We met him last February at Indonesia Open, when he played in the same flight as my brother and we got to talking and found out he&#8217;s a SoCal-er! and any SoCal-er is amazing in my book, plus Bryan is really friendly and a <em>really</em> talented golfer to boot.</p>
<p>(and yes, that <em>is</em> beer bottle)</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1484" title="Gaganjeet Bhullar" src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/bhullar.jpg" alt="Gaganjeet Bhullar" width="500" height="375" /></p>
<p>This is Gaganjeet Bhullar, who won the tournament last week with an impressive 22 under par score. He only made ONE bogey throughout the entire tournament! that&#8217;s hella amazing&#8230; the guy was really friendly when we asked him for pictures and autograph. I have a hat designated for golf autographs now.. I plan to add more to this hat as I attend more Asian Tour events!</p>
<p>To top it off, the President of Indonesia came out to attend the prize presentation ceremony and personally handed over the trophy to the winner. it was the first time he ever came out to this event (on its 3rd year), and a brave move since it was only about a week after the twin bombing in Central Jakarta. Yeah, you can just imagine how crazy the preparation was for him to come.. lots of things to prepare behind the scene that I previously would never even imagine.</p>
<p>For pictures of this, i&#8217;ll just direct you to <a href="http://www.pipinvitational.com/2009/07/31/ipi-2009-tournament-pictures/">the official website </a>:)</p>
<p>So.. yeah. that&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve been busy with. I tried really hard to post at least once more in July since I barely posted last year, but I guess it&#8217;s past midnight and it&#8217;s officially August</p>
<p>yeah, i&#8217;m freaking out about the fact that it&#8217;s already August. In my mind it&#8217;s still JUNE!</p>
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		<title>Beautiful Batik Art</title>
		<link>http://blog.melissahie.com/2009/04/26/beautiful-batik-art/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Apr 2009 14:12:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Icha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I've known Batik for quite some time but as a child, I never really appreciated <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Batik">this form of art</a>.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve known Batik for quite some time but as a child, I never really appreciated <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Batik">this form of art</a>. I guess I just took it for granted as one of the nation&#8217;s most famous tradition without knowing its true value. However today, as I was accompanying my mom in search for some souvenir I found myself completely in love with Batik! The patterns produced with this technique are just so intricately beautiful, the details are mind-blowing and perfectly imperfect as a result of the hand painting process. It is truly incredible.</p>
<p>I love the scarves and linens, but most of all i love the hand carved AND hand painted (!!) batik masks:</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1124" title="batik-mask-1" src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/batik-mask-1.jpg" alt="batik-mask-1" width="500" height="375" /></p>
<p>When i grow up and have a house, I want three of these hanging on the living room wall. there were three different sizes. the smallest one is about the size of my palm (see below) and the biggest one covers my face. the medium-sized mask is probable about 1.5 bigger than the smallest one.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1125" title="batik-mask-2" src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/batik-mask-21.jpg" alt="batik-mask-2" width="375" height="500" /></p>
<p>I took a liking to this mask since the face isn&#8217;t as sinister as the other ones. plus, the pattern is just so pretty! I feel so inspired after seeing these. wonder if I can buy the unpainted carved masks and paint one myself!</p>
<p>Anyway, today my family and I also happen to pass by the christian school that all three of us (me, my sis and my bro) used to go to. I went to this school from 6th &#8211; 9th grade. It was quite a nostalgic experience. The school was a bit smaller than I remember, but they held so many memories of my early teenage years.</p>
<p>we talked about the places we used to hang out at, and how all three of us used to get some sort of punishment for being  just a couple minutes late to school (we had to stand in front of the whole school during our monday weekly ceremony!!), how my brother played basketball and soccer all the time and ripped his pants in front of his classmates (he didn&#8217;t care back then), how we had to change for gym in a small bathroom along with the rest of the class, so on so forth. it&#8217;s amazing how much you&#8217;re able to remember and how much you manage to forget in just.. a little under 10 years.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1126" title="kanaan" src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/kanaan.jpg" alt="kanaan" width="500" height="375" /></p>
<p>ahhh memories!!!</p>
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		<title>Money money</title>
		<link>http://blog.melissahie.com/2009/04/09/money-money/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:03:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A couple days ago, I was opening a bank account and was told that if i deposit Rp 1,000,000 into my acct (pictured below) I would get a free gift! So of course I went over to the nearest ATM and took out a bundle of money and deposited it to the new acct right [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A couple days ago, I was opening a bank account and was told that if i deposit Rp 1,000,000 into my acct (pictured below) I would get a free gift! So of course I went over to the nearest ATM and took out a bundle of money and deposited it to the new acct right away :D</p>
<p>This is about US$100 in rupiah, the currency of Indonesia. Isn&#8217;t it nuts how something that can be represented with just one bill in the US requires at least 10 bills here? (our biggest bill is Rp 100,000)</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1083" title="This is about US$100 in Rupiah" src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/100bucks.jpg" alt="This is about US$100 in Rupiah" width="500" height="375" /></p>
<p><em>A bit of Indonesian history:</em> As far as I can recall, Rupiah wasn&#8217;t always this weak against USD. it wasn&#8217;t until the huge <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1997_Asian_Financial_Crisis">asian financial crisis</a> back in 1997 that the value of US dollar literally quintupled against Rupiah, as it did to many other currencies as well. I believe before the crisis, the exchange rate for US$1 was Rp 2,000 &#8211; 3,000. Immediately after the crisis (1998-1999) the rate became Rp 12,000 &#8211; 16,000 for US$1&#8230; so you can just imagine how CRAZY it was for us. Anyway, Rupiah never really recovered from the crisis&#8230; even now, 11 years later. I believe the lowest exchange rate was only around Rp 8,000 per USD, which was back in 2008. In fact, right now it is back at around Rp 11,400 due to the recession.</p>
<p>Welcome to Indonesia, where things aren&#8217;t as nice and dandy as it is in the states</p>
<p>(&#8230; but still <a href="http://humorland.wordmess.net/20081025/what-the-real-crisis-is-like/">a million times better than Zimbabwe</a>)</p>
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		<title>Memories!</title>
		<link>http://blog.melissahie.com/2008/10/23/memories/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 09:41:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I called in sick today because i felt crappy last night + this morning.. but now i&#8217;m fine. so i took advantage of the day by cleaning around my apt. i cleaned the bathroom and did laundry today. i also caught up with the rest of Dirty Sexy Money while waiting for my laundry to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I called in sick today because i felt crappy last night + this morning.. but now i&#8217;m fine. so i took advantage of the day by cleaning around my apt. i cleaned the bathroom and did laundry today. i also caught up with the rest of Dirty Sexy Money while waiting for my laundry to be done :D</p>
<p>then i started looking around for things to do around the apartment when i came across this box with my little memorabilias in it. i think i forgot to unpack it from when i moved from my previous apartment. i found a bunch of things i almost forgot about inside, but the notable ones are these two:</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/prom.jpg" alt="" title="prom" width="300" height="400" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-656" /></p>
<p>that&#8217;s my prom picture. omg i was sooooo awkward! it&#8217;s pretty embarrassing&#8230; anyway, i went with a good friend from high school. he&#8217;s up in the bay area right now in UCSF dental school. i haven&#8217;t talked to him in almost two years now.</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/math33b.jpg" alt="" title="math33b" width="400" height="801" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-657" /></p>
<p>this one is my math 33b midterm from my 2nd year. i saved it because it was one of my best exams from college (although i almost forgot about it until now). i&#8217;ve gotten a few A&#8217;s before, but this was special since it was a &#8220;real&#8221; A, not a curved A. ^^ i think the average for this midterm was mid 70s. sadly though, i only managed a B in the class. i bombed the second midterm after this one and only did okay in the final -_- (which counted for a huge chunk of the grade.. over 50%)</p>
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		<title>080808</title>
		<link>http://blog.melissahie.com/2008/08/08/080808/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Aug 2008 05:45:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Icha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In chinese and most asian culture, numbers plays a very important role in measuring luck. the number 8 is considered a very lucky number while &#8217;4&#8242; is associated with death, and therefore unlucky. when i was back in indonesia, i lived in a community that was relatively new. we moved in at the same time [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In chinese and most asian culture, numbers plays a very important role in measuring luck. the number 8 is considered a very lucky number while &#8217;4&#8242; is associated with death, and therefore unlucky. when i was back in indonesia, i lived in a community that was relatively new. we moved in at the same time as many of the neighbors, who are predominantly of chinese descent. i remember one particular day when my mom went to the main community office to pick out our home number for the first time. she told me it was very hard to get numbers that has &#8220;8&#8243; in them because everyone went crazy for it.</p>
<p>so, that coupled with the Beijing Olympic Ceremony, can you imagine just how excited chinese people all over the world are to welcome this day? :D</p>
<p>anyway, today i went to a BBQ hosted by one of my friends.</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/babies01.jpg" alt="" title="babies01" width="300" height="400" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-553" /></p>
<p>Ethan loves popcorn. if you hold out a piece he would take it off your hands ^^. he is about 2 years old</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/babies02.jpg" alt="" title="babies02" width="300" height="400" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-554" /></p>
<p>Hayden (one year old?) loOooves to play with things. more on this later.</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/babies03.jpg" alt="" title="babies03" width="300" height="400" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-555" /></p>
<p><img src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/babies04.jpg" alt="" title="babies04" width="400" height="267" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-556" /></p>
<p>Hayden looking very interested in my camera case. he took it and carried it around the apartment. i had to take it back when he started to chew on it cause it&#8217;s not exactly the cleanest thing ever :P</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/bbq.jpg" alt="" title="bbq" width="400" height="300" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-557" /></p>
<p>yummy BBQ!</p>
<p>then we all watched the opening ceremony together on my friend&#8217;s awesome HDTV. honestly, i have to say&#8230; only chinese people can pull off that kind of show. it was absolutely amazing. i was told they spent a whooping $300 million preparing for this Olympics. for comparison, in distant second is the US at $30 million for the Atlanta 1996 Olympics (though don&#8217;t quote me on this cause i haven&#8217;t checked the facts yet)</p>
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		<title>Meeting Kristen Bell</title>
		<link>http://blog.melissahie.com/2008/08/02/meeting-kristen-bell/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 02:01:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Icha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kristen Bell was in Westwood at Red Mango for Invisible Children. In the spring of 2003, three young filmmakers traveled to Africa in search of a story. What started out as a filmmaking adventure transformed into much more when these boys from Southern California discovered a tragedy that disgusted and inspired them, a tragedy where [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kristen Bell was in Westwood at Red Mango for <a href="http://www.invisiblechildren.com">Invisible Children</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>In the spring of 2003, three young filmmakers traveled to Africa in search of a story. What started out as a filmmaking adventure transformed into much more when these boys from Southern California discovered a tragedy that disgusted and inspired them, a tragedy where children are both the weapons and the victims.</p>
<p>After returning to the States, they created the documentary &#8220;Invisible Children: Rough Cut,&#8221; a film that exposes the tragic realities of northern Uganda.s night commuters and child soldiers.</p>
<p>The film was originally shown to friends and family, but has now been seen by millions of people. The overwhelming response has been, &#8220;How can I help?&#8221; To answer this question, the non-profit Invisible Children, Inc. was created, giving compassionate individuals an effective way to respond to the situation.</p></blockquote>
<p>and now, onto the pics:</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/kb01.jpg" alt="" title="kb01" width="300" height="400" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-532" /></p>
<p>Kristen when she first arrived at Red Mango. There were about 50-60 people in line at this point. It was a pretty small event.. I also didn&#8217;t see it advertised that much (I only saw fliers the day before)</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/kb03.jpg" alt="" title="kb03" width="400" height="300" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-534" /></p>
<p>Signing autographs for the kids. she is wearing Invisible Children tank top now over her summer dress.</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/kb04.jpg" alt="" title="kb03" width="400" height="300" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-535" /></p>
<p>Kristen and a very star struck me :D she was soOOo tiny!! I am wearing flip-flops here while she is wearing 4&#8243; heels in this picture. i&#8217;m about 5&#8217;3&#8243; or 5&#8217;4&#8243; so she&#8217;s probably about 5&#8217;1&#8243; &#8211; 5&#8217;2&#8243;?</p>
<p><img src="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/kb05.jpg" alt="" title="kb03" width="400" height="300" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-536" /></p>
<p>my autographed Veronica Mars season 1 DVD. Kristen was very nice when i asked her to sign the DVD :) maybe someday I can get the autograph of all cast? wishful thinking, i know.</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.melissahie.com/2007/07/10/the-day-i-met-veronica-mars/">remember that i bought my camera after seeing Kristen Bell over a year ago</a>? I suppose my camera has fulfilled its duty now :D</p>
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		<title>Note to Self</title>
		<link>http://blog.melissahie.com/2008/04/10/note-to-self/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 17:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[games to watch out for my beloved DS :) Final Fantasy IV &#8211; after the disappointment that is FF3 remake (which i have to say was one of the most frustrating RPG with the scarceness of save points and lack of an actual solid storyline), i&#8217;m hoping Square redeems itself through the remake one of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>games to watch out for my beloved DS :)</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://ds.ign.com/objects/905/905252.html">Final Fantasy IV</a></strong> &#8211; after the disappointment that is FF3 remake (which i have to say was one of the most frustrating RPG with the scarceness of save points and lack of an actual solid storyline), i&#8217;m hoping Square redeems itself through the remake one of the classics. i&#8217;ve heard good things about it from people who have played the Japanese version, making me oh-so-very optimistic about this game! and for the record, i&#8217;ve never played the original SNES one so it&#8217;ll be a brand new experience to me</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://ds.ign.com/objects/856/856776.html">The World Ends With You</a></strong> &#8211; another Square Enix release that&#8217;s been generating quite a bit of buzz and positive reviews. i keep hearing it being referred to as possibly a new break through in the RPG scene. with such promises, i hope it doesn&#8217;t fall below my expectation. scheduled to release at the end of this month (04/22/2008).</p>
<p>I read a short story in indonesian that I like. It&#8217;s a simple story and i would translate it if i had the skill, but unfortunately i don&#8217;t.</p>
<blockquote><p>do LEAVES fly away because the WIND blew or because TREES did not stop them from flying?</p></blockquote>
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		<title>food for thought</title>
		<link>http://blog.melissahie.com/2007/08/24/food-for-thought/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Aug 2007 01:45:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I remember I wrote about this in my (old) blog before. when i was in junior high, i read a story about how there are two types of people- potato and egg. the potato types start out hard and goes soft when boiled, while egg types are the other way around. it&#8217;s an analogy of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I remember I wrote about this in my (old) blog before. when i was in junior high, i read a story about how there are two types of people- potato and egg. the potato types start out hard and goes soft when boiled, while egg types are the other way around. it&#8217;s an analogy of how people are after they went through the &#8220;boiler&#8221; that is the hardships in life&#8230; they either become soft or hard like the potatoes and eggs. one thing i can&#8217;t remember though, is which one was supposed to be the &#8220;good&#8221; kind of transformation. i guess i missed the most important part of the story, hah! but i feel that it can be left to our own judgments.</p>
<p>what i realized just today is that if people are potatoes and eggs, does each and everyone of us eventually gets the chance to be &#8220;boiled&#8221; in such way? i feel that some people will never get to that point, because life can be so&#8230; normal. so cookie-cuttered, so safe and so mundane that it&#8217;s impossible to achieve such extremity if we are not consciously pursuing it.</p>
<p>which brings me to my next point. i heard an very inspiring story from a certain president of a certain company today. in everyday life, he keeps very low profile (though one should be aware of his success judging from what he has today) that if he hadn&#8217;t told me, i would have never guessed in a million year how he had it in the past.</p>
<blockquote><p>he went to medical school in Taiwan, graduated second in his class, and came to Harvard as a scholar exchange in the medical field during his last year. then, as if that&#8217;s not already an accomplishment enough, Harvard practically *begged* him to try their MBA program. he didn&#8217;t submit his application because of the ginormous tuition and even passed the application deadline without applying, but gave in when Harvard still didn&#8217;t back down.</p>
<p>his family was considered wealthy, to the point that Harvard&#8217;s hefty tuition wasn&#8217;t a problem for them. however, he refused aid and turned down all offers of help from family, all except $6,000 that he brought with him to the US. obviously this wasn&#8217;t enough for Harvard&#8217;s $37,000 a year tuition. he couldn&#8217;t accept any scholarship for a certain period of time since he was a foreign student, but he persisted and got a job washing toilets at a local Chinese restaurant (told me he knows how to change toilet seats). he and his now wife survived over staple college kids food like cup ramen. on some nights he would wait in front of dunkin donut&#8217;s for the leftovers because they are $1 for eight donuts, which he ate in a span of a week with his wife. during winter time, he wrapped himself in a thin blanket and froze in the cold snowy day.</p>
<p>fast forward fifteen years later, to say that he reaped the result of his hardwork is a complete understatement. he now owns a couple of houses and properties in bel air, owns an office building in LA, and owns a business which consisted of seven health care facilities all over LA. basically, he&#8217;s the dictionary definition of a self made billionaire. everything he has now he worked hard from ground up with little to no help.</p></blockquote>
<p>he told me that if he hadn&#8217;t gone through those kind of hardship, he&#8217;s not sure if he would be where he is today. he could have been better off, but the experience has given him a sort of wisdom that no one else can achieve otherwise. it made me realize that i should stop pitying myself, because life hardships&#8230; once you get through everything, only good can came out from it.</p>
<p>oh, and then he went to UCLA <strong>AND</strong> USC for even further education. what the hell is there after grad school??</p>
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		<title>Your real zodiac</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Aug 2007 05:07:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Icha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[my friend sonia showed me a site that i thought was very interesting if you&#8217;re into horoscope (which i&#8217;m 50-50 about). it gives you your real zodiac sign by showing you how the sky looked like at the time of your birth. here&#8217;s an explanation from the site Your zodiacal &#8220;sign&#8221; is determined by which [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>my friend sonia showed me <a href="http://www.ucolick.org/~bolte/AY4_00/weblab/project/chart.html">a site</a> that i thought was very interesting if you&#8217;re into horoscope (which i&#8217;m 50-50 about). it gives you your real zodiac sign by showing you how the sky looked like at the time of your birth. here&#8217;s an explanation from the site</p>
<blockquote><p>Your zodiacal &#8220;sign&#8221; is determined by which of the 12 constellations of the zodiac the Sun was in on the day you were born.  Almost everyone knows what their zodiacal sign is, but did you know that which constellation the Sun is in during any given month is slowly changing over the course of thousands of years?  This means that if during late October of this year, the Sun is in the constellation Scorpius (it is not), then a couple of thousand Octobers from now it will have moved out of that constellation, and into another. This is because the Earth wobbles or precesses around its axis of rotation, which causes the background stars that make up the zodiacal constellations to change their apparent positions with respect to the Sun. So as the Earth wobbles, the Sun appears to change which constellation it&#8217;s in.</p></blockquote>
<p>cooOoooOol huh?</p>
<p>so what you do is basically you pick your birthplace from the site (or the closest place&#8230; i doubt it matters much), then enter your birthdate and uncheck everything in the display option but the planets and the constellation names &#038; boundaries to get a clear view of everything. the constellation that the sun is in at the time of your birth should be your &#8220;real&#8221; zodiac sign.</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.melissahie.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/08/yoursky.gif">here&#8217;s how the sky looked at the time of my birth</a>. according to this, my sign is apparently <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ophiuchus">ophiuchus</a> which doesn&#8217;t exist in western astrology. but it&#8217;s pretty darn close to Scorpio so i guess i&#8217;ll take that. it&#8217;s weird to know cause all my life i&#8217;ve always thought i was a Sag.</p>
<p>anyways, i said i&#8217;m 50-50 about horoscope. what i meant by this is that i don&#8217;t believe in the daily horoscope BS. they are only fun to read or laugh at- nothing more. but i have always noticed that i get along better with people of certain signs, namely aries and pisces, which has been said to be a good match for sag and scorpio</p>
<p>ahhh all these constellation names make me miss BSG. is it 2008 yet?</p>
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		<title>Dreamy Lunar Eclipse</title>
		<link>http://blog.melissahie.com/2007/08/07/dreamy-lunar-eclipse/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2007 06:57:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Icha</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[how cool is this? i LOVE the outer space!! so mysterious&#8230; so beautiful. so full of endless possibilities and exciting potentials waiting to be discovered. when i was in third grade, i really wanted to be an astronaut. the first time i read in my science textbook that Venus and Mercury sometimes appear with the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>how cool is <a href="http://science.nasa.gov/headlines/y2007/03aug_dreamyeclipse.htm?list39638">this</a>? i LOVE the outer space!! so mysterious&#8230; so beautiful. so full of endless possibilities and exciting potentials waiting to be discovered.</p>
<p>when i was in third grade, i really wanted to be an astronaut. the first time i read in my science textbook that Venus and Mercury sometimes appear with the sun as it rises at dawn, i sleep walked in the middle of the night to the window, and stared at the sky. when my parents asked me what the hell i was doing, i told them (while still sleeping at that time) i was looking for the planets. it wasn&#8217;t even anywhere close to sunrise at that time&#8230; :P</p>
<p>when i was in fifth grade, during lunch break i would go to the school library (which wasn&#8217;t as nice as the libraries here&#8230; i was still in indonesia) and find books about planets and read them cover to cover. and then i used to LOVE sailor moon solely based on the fact that they&#8217;re all named after planets. well except sailor moon herself&#8230; and i don&#8217;t really count the ones that comes after the original sailor moon. my favorite was sailor mercury because i always liked Mercury as a planet.</p>
<p>i guess that&#8217;s the basis of my love for sci-fi related shows. i love the idea that human being will one day be advanced enough to explore the outer space freely, and even inhabit planets other than earth. i get sooooo excited when i think about these kinda stuff. and i love the x-files because it caters to my belief. i believe wholeheartedly there&#8217;s another life out there. i don&#8217;t obsess over it like Mulder does, nor do i care enough to prove their existence or think about the science behind it, but i truly embrace the idea and believe in it without a doubt.</p>
<p>okay, i should stop here before i sound even crazier or geekier than i already am. but if anyone ever wonder what my passion in life is, that&#8217;s one of them.</p>
<p>and don&#8217;t forget the meteor shower on the 12th! :D</p>
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